Rhapsody that is an absolutely perfect answer. I don't know why I feel so negatively about myself and don't really know how to change it but I know I have gotten better. A few years ago, if my boyfriend would have even looked at another girl, whether it was sexual or just people watching, I would have gone on a shame spiral and hated myself. But now I can deal with them, but they still kind of hurt.

Roman - see he doesn't do that stuff. He always tells me I look cute or when he really likes a certain outfit or a certain hair style. He actually compliments me all the time which I why I don't understand why those kind of comments bug me. I guess just because even if I think to myself "wow, that guy has some nice abs" I would never say it to him. So I feel like... "yeah, I know you notice other girls but you don't have to point it out to me every damn time".