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Old Jun 20, 2009, 01:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Pupp View Post
just leave me alone please if youre going to post with just "okay"?... what is the point in that?
you did the same thing here:
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uh... ok...
so maybe you could give us an idea of why you did it, and also take a guess at why sannah did it.

no one here is trying to hurt or belittle you, pupp. but at the same time, we (or most of us) aren't therapists. so we can only guess at what you feel, because most of us have been in similar places to where you are now.

it is ok if what we are saying isn't helping you. you are allowed to say that. but it would be helpful if you could say what exactly you mean by "support". right now, a lot of us are guessing (and trying the best that we can), but apparently we keep getting it wrong.

if you could say "i just want hugs", or "i just want someone to hear me", or "i just want someone to say 'poor pupp'", - or whatever it is you REALLY want, then it would help us a lot in being able to support you.

ppl here do care, pupp. but it is difficult to know how to respond in a way that you will find helpful.