You are not delusional - you POSTED his letter - we can see that he IS a controlling person, who has an overly inflated ego, thinks HIS way is the only way.... or are we all delusional ???? :-)

I agree with Faye - walk into that meeting tomorrow with your held held high , state your opinions, and don't let him intimidate you ! He is ONLY human. And keep in the back of your mind while sitting in that room, there are MANY of us from this site sitting right behind you in spirit - and keep that hairdo in mind, so if things get tense - you can distract yourself with the vision !!!!