Okay, I can talk with myself, can't hurt huh? Well, Tonight I was invited out on a friend's boat and took the youngest with me as hubby was meeting with the other daughter's T with her. It was a big mess and daughter was confronted on the abusive behavior of boyfriend and that she can't see him anylonger. Major crisis, hubby called friends on the boat and they agreed to take the kid for a while to see if things settle down. Meanwhile I come home after giving them the child and such and find a note from her threatening that the boyfriend's family is going to "get us" Well, I called a cop friend who told me I could and should do a restraining order against the kid for emotional, verbal abuse and manipulation. He said the order could include the family too. There is only 2 weeks left of school and we are looking at options of having her finish year at home to get away from this kid. She is at friend's house and they are keeping her home tomorrow. Hubby will meet them at the doc's. Another issue, she hasn't had a period in two months. I hope I don't even have to go there, maybe it's stress. My friends are getting through to her, listening and being kind. they are good people. I only know them because their father is my friend and he is dying and I have been helping. They good folks. I am afraid of these hillbillies that are the boyfriend's family. I am afraid they will hurt one of my pets. I have to be 1.5 hours away tomorrow and yet I feel the need for a restraining order or an order of no trespass. I want to tell hubby to lock everything when he leaves but we never lock, where are the keys? I visualize bad stuff so I need my mind to go to a rational place. Kids are safe. Hubby is fine, Doc gave him a release today and he can start increasing his activity as tolerated. He can go off pain meds and use tylenol and Ibuprofen. I feel like a gumby doll torn in a million different directions.