Okay, tonite after reading this I will become "visable", I had switched to "invisable" in the past cause we had an ex-member (a long time ago) that just wouldn't let up with the stalking and nasty PM's when I was a fairly new member, so that is when I went "invisable".
If my changing this tonite helps anyone, I will gladly be "visable" with much pleasure

This is great, this thread, learning what changes people would like and also at the same time what people seem satisfied with.
How refreshing

Take care,
DE