I am in a similiar situation except I haven't got out yet. Still trying!! The best advice that I can give you is think about the baby and do you want the same things to happen to it. I am working on getting out of my abusive relationship. Once I leave no one can do anything to make me come back. I am not doing it for myself at this point, all of it is for my 2 kids. They deserve better. I hope everything works out for you and your baby. If you ever need to talk everyone here is willing. GOOD LUCK!!!!!