So I've been on this chat someone suggested to me a while now. Its a grief support chat/site. We were talking about losing a parents and some other things.

I said i didn't think i would miss my parents/grief much if my parents died. Said i'd probably be relieved.
So someone said 'that's horrible'. I said well they are horrible. so that fits.

So the whole room fell over me and said i couldn't talk about wishing my parents dead because there are people who wish they could get their back.
I said no i dont want them dead. I just said i dont think i would grief much over them.

Someone said how would you feel if someone said they wished their brother dead. I said I would wonder why.

So... it's not ok to say how i would feel about my parents if they'd die.
I said sorry i said something and left. Why do i keep getting these responses?
First someone invalidating my loss and now this.

What do you think? Is it wrong or inconsiderate to talk about how I feel about my parents in a chat like that? I don't know... I keep so much in and then I say how I feel and BAM everyone falls over each other to tell me how horrible it is etc.

Like I said... What do you think?