welcome white iris!
you make perfect sense. how long have you been seeing your t? it takes a very long time to build trust...especially with teens and children. do you know the specific issues Dee has with your t so that you and her can discuss them? journaling is a great way to communicate that stuff.
i understand your fear for her and her fragility right now. what might reach her to help her feel safe? maybe you could ask her that in journaling. possibly she needs something very simple to feel safe?
keep talking. we're here for you. it's good to meet you. i'm kd. i live with dissociative identity disorder and have a 14 yr old as well...very pensive young one.
we're listening.
kd
__________________
|