You know Kyle, I've been srewed over by alot of people in my life and I have secrets that could destroy lives, marriages, hearts. The thing is like you said I am better than that. If someone hurts me it doesn't mean I have to hurt them back. It's just a vicious circle that will only end in pain, pain and more pain.
I am glad you are finding it within yourself to be the better person. It truly does have it's rewards. (besides, for a little while they wait and wonder if you're gonna tell and it's fun to watch them squirm a little, that's payback enough for me :O)
Heidu

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get for it, but what they become by it.
John Ruskin