He is actually circumsized. I have been doing my own research and thought it was thrush at first, but I took the antibiotic (Zithromax) and all of the white stuff has cleared away. I hope I am not allergic to semen, I haven't had any kids yet. I am actually scheduled to see an allergist on Thursday. Exactly, healthy meaningful relationships this issue could have been dealt with. I didn't think this would be such a big deal that he would disappear with no care at all. He acted as if I did something to him, when in reality its his bacteria that is irritating my throat. I have learned my lesson. I accepted him back three times and got disappointed each time. I actually wrote out how I was feeling in notepad for therapy, I want to send him an email so bad, but I know he is not worth any words. I am just ready to meet the love of my life. I do need to give myself space after this disappointment before I move on with anyone else. I will not let someone use me again for sure. Thanks for the tips. I may ask my allergist.