I called an impasse since I just can't work with the ex. Now the kids get their own laywer and the court decides what's in the kids' best interests.

He started in with his denial of things we've discussed regarding the kids, told me that waving me away with his hand and saying "pffft" is "the best way to answer you." I called him on something that we've discussed over and over that he flat out denied and he finally said "Oh, yeah, I guess I did say that."

I told him his g/f is the one who called him a homophobe, not me, and that his daughter said he was racial profiling when he pointed at a guy in a turban and said he was a terrorist. But he says the kids said "Mom says you're a Nazi." The guy can lie so easily, it sickens me.

He just sat there with his dead eyes and flat voice, telling me his way is the best way but that he doesn't feel he's superior or condescending to me in any way.

I could lose the kids to him because he can talk his way out of anything, and that's why I'm feeling sick.