my biological father passed away before i was one, adoptive father was too busy boffing his secretary to develop any kind of relationship with us...but boy he sure had time to deposit those child survivor benefit checks. Yes siree bob. Asked him for help once financially...said he was all tapped out...guess he found time to spend those checks too. He's getting older and sicker. If i was an unloveable, cold, person, i'd probably enjoy watching him suffer. But ya know as far as time goes, i am all tapped out.