My daughter has 5th grade graduation tonight. My son had preschool graduation. I WAS NEVER TOLD! I am NOTHING to their lives. Their father obviously doesn't want me in it. He only lets me see the kids now since my daughter's T mentioned about Mother's Day and letting me see the kids. I am nothing more than a BABYSITTER. I am supposed to see my kids this weekend--how can I?! I am so upset right now.