I do very much want to be friends with her. I just don't know how to do it. How to make it a balanced healthy relationship. She is my only friend so that is why it is so hard to distance myself from her to keep my sanity in check and keep the peace between us. I agree my perceptions maybe off but I have never experienced someone with OCD traits before I met her. So I am like fish out of water if you know what I mean. It is very surreal to watch her daily routines, mannerisms, ........ list goes on.