welcome white_iris!

Has your therapist said anything more specific than just 'dissociative disorder'? You can still learn a bunch whether or not you know exactly what you're dealing with.

It takes time to figure out how your system/family/circles/alters work as everyone is different.

This is a good place for questions. There are also other sites with closed membership that some DID people feel more comfortable at. The great thing about the Internet is that you can find a place that fits your specific needs as you learn more about what is going on for all of you. I know that I went through a few sites when first dx'd trying to find something that wasn't insulting to my system and safe enough for my system at the same time. Landed here after some bumps.

Be sure to check the archives in this forum to see if any of your questions may have already been addressed. The resource directory up top (link at top of page) has great info and can lead you on a websurfari for hours if you're caught up in reading all those great sites!