I, too, agree with LMo and jmo... there is a generation gap, for lack of a better word. To be told by someone barely over half your age that "things like that happen all the time"? Come on now! It just torques me off, I guess. They have issues that are unique to their age bracket. We "adults"(I'm the goofygirl... hence the quotation marks!)have our own. I feel quite awkward having them in chat sometimes, as well. I'm not saying that they are all bad...don't get me wrong... just that they have different needs, and they are inplaces that I escaped, and I really don't want to relive, but I'm forced to in reading through posts!