Hi guys well it's taking a lot of guts logging on to somewhere like this because I really need some suppot. Please don't hate me because I don't mean to cause any harm and don't want to upset anyone. The thing is I am in a relationship with a guy who I love dearly and know he loves me equally as much. Only problem is he is married so I am the "other woman". I didn't know he was married until I had well and truly fallen in love with him and then it was just too hard and too late to end it with him. I feel selfish and cruel towards his wife at times, but then at times I think well it's him that is married so I shouldn't carry all the blame myself. It's just so hard I don't know which way to turn - I don't want to hurt anyone (especially his wife or his grown up children) but I really really want to be with him. Although we don't get to spend much time together when we do it's awesome and wonderful. At the moment we're getting to spend a whole month together because he's on study leave. When we have to go back to normal I know that will be hard. Oh please don't hate me guys I just need some support.