I come unglued when my husband looks at other women, especially who are showing skin. It does not matter if they are on tv, on the computer, or in person. Does he gawk you say? No i would say not. I would say they do get his attention, however. Does he comment? NO Does he say ugly things to me? NO He tells me everyday I am beautiful. So does he have the right to look at other women? I've heard all the comebacks...you look at men dont you? They don't take over my attention span for short periods of time. Besides, women are not exposed to men nearly naked at every turn. It eats me up... to the point it has created problems in our marriage. How do I deal with my jealousy, insecurity, whatever it is? When I don't say anything about it, I feel like he has gotten away with something. I feel like I am swallowing a horse pill, gagging, stuggling to get it down, when I don't call him out on it....Help me.........