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Originally Posted by abeatofmyown
Im sorry to say this...however i think that is the most selfish thing anyone can do. he has some nerve telling you he's gay after four freaking years. How dare he? he has wasted your time. He didnt just figure out he wasnt attracted to women he knew this for a while and should have had the decency to tell you if he said he "loved" you. Give him what he wants and dont be empathtic to him he doesnt care about your feelings at all. he telling you that he rather put penis in another mans butt rather then be with you. very sad. Im soooooooooooooo sorry.Keep strong.dont let it ruin your life. life didnt begin with him and it wont end with him.
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Excuse Me?
I can be almost positive that if Fibrorobin didn't feel bad enough, she most certainly does now simply by such a vulgar and insensitive remark such as this of yours now.
And, you continue by throwing in a couple words of empty encouragement? How obviously shameful.
Although it's possible that her husband could have handled this matter differently so that it would not have devistated Fibrorobin as it has, that doen't mean that his act was intentional.
Who are we to pass judgement on her situation, anyway? We are here to listen and support the best that we can...NOT to be so deliberately hurtful.
And I can assure you that there are far more selfish things that others can do, (such as possibly this reply of yours to her?), to other's without having any remorse whatsoever.
I can only hope that you will have the decency to offer Fibrorobin a sincere heartfelt apology.
(I apologize if this reply of mine is considered flaming. It is NOT a practice of mine to do so, however I felt it very necessary to respond to this in this manner).
Fibrorobin, our thoughts are with you. Hang in there.
Shangrala
