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Originally Posted by abeatofmyown
Im sorry to say this...however i think that is the most selfish thing anyone can do. he has some nerve telling you he's gay after four freaking years. How dare he? he has wasted your time. He didnt just figure out he wasnt attracted to women he knew this for a while and should have had the decency to tell you if he said he "loved" you. Give him what he wants and dont be empathtic to him he doesnt care about your feelings at all. he telling you that he rather put penis in another mans butt rather then be with you. very sad. Im soooooooooooooo sorry.Keep strong.dont let it ruin your life. life didnt begin with him and it wont end with him.
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I don't think hating the man will do you any good. Please dont even consider the above posters suggestions. I cant imagine the hurt you are going through, I really cant, but you can get through it with caring and empathy far easier than holding on to hatred. Trust me, after many many years of ugly hate eating up my soul I finally decided to give empathy and love and care a try and I have made more progress with empathy in 3 months than I have with hate for 14 years.
Everybody does selfish things, everyone make mistakes some of them are terrible terrible mistakes. I cant know the reasons that your husband pretended to be straight but I am sure it had something to do with the hatred that is in our world for people that are gay. I hope that you get all the support you need and find the love that you deserve. Peace to you.