I really like it when my T curses. I curse a lot so it seems like she's doing it for my benefit - to get on my level. It always makes me laugh. I told her this analysis once and she said, "You know, I don't really curse but it feels more natural with you." That made me laugh a lot because it sounds so unnatural but it was also comforting because not only do I feel a different level of comfort with her, but she feels a different level of comfort with me.

Another thing that I really love is when I catch her laughing or smiling at a behavior I exhibit. For example, sometimes when I feel really stressed in session I will make this explosion nose and my hands will make kind of an atom bomb explosive sort of movement. She likes that, and I like that she likes that.

I also LOVE when she uses txtspeak in text messages. No one I know does it but her. "txt me if u r sure ur going to b late" hahaha