(((aurora)))

Please, if you can, focus on yourself at this time, and what your medical team that you will be assembling have in store for you and your recovery.

You will have more support than you ever dreamed possible now,
with the cancer community out here IRL and your friends at PC and elsewhere, as they will appear.

Don't worry about friends coming forward, as most people close by don't really know how to handle such news, or difficulties.

You are the most important person right now, so I would concern yourself with what you will be doing next... try not to look back, or distract yourself with what others do or don't. It's good to share this, but try not to dwell, okay Sweetie.

I hope all goes well. I am sorry your biopsy came back with the words we all dread to hear.

I hope you heal from this, and as you stay in touch with your feelings, and join in the support your community has available for you ~ for free... you find peace.

You might also find that the language of cancer patients, with all the difficult processing ahead, can be even more powerful for you than those who disappoint you now, when spoken by other women who have been there... so hang in there and I hope you look for support in your area, as soon as you can.

It was one of the best things I have ever done.

Learning to live in this world with cancer is a new path, one you can fill with hope and love and healing, while letting go of any expectations on others because as we now know, expectations aren't real, it's just some thoughts in our head.

Peace and grace and calm moments ahead, I wish for you ~
You will get thru this,
Night
xoxo

p.s. there is a forum for surviving cancer here, you can access thru my profile, that has lots of info regarding current cancer resources, books that inform and support, and recent research as well as what dietary needs you can meet now. it's available to anyone needing info, and to add anything they want to. Please avail yourself, if you would like to...

xoxo