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Originally Posted by notme9
Just chiming in to say I can see why it would be upsetting, and I agree that you should discuss that...but I also think that, well, he is a person too and it's important to be respectful of his boundaries about his health. Some people just like to keep health concerns to themselves, especially if he really is concerned about something. Anyway, I hope it's nothing serious and I hope he can give you some reassurance about that. I can just sort of see how if I were in that situation I might react as he is... ((((((((treehouse))))))))
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Yeah, I can get what you are saying
I really, really don't want to know the details, just a general idea of if he is okay or not. I mean, if it is a pulled muscle (for example) it seems like it would be so easy for him to say that and for us to move on. And then since he won't say that (which would be so simple) it scares me that it is something more serious, like with both of my parents, and that he's going to die
Because that is my experience.
I'm sure we'll work through it today. And Deli said the same thing my H said - that what I really need to know is something along the lines of "what's going on won't affect your therapy". I guess I do need to know that. But I WANT to know if he is okay or not.
Blah!