
no you shouldn't be judged.
I always find that bad news/situations come along in 3s, a bit like buses...it is darn frustrating and irritating! And it is very, very difficult to stop self-destructive behaviour when we feel judged and critisised.
Take care of yourself because you deserve love and respect.
You are a good person.

But i wouldn't spend 10dollars at a dollar tree - i don't know what that is but it doesn't sound like a good deal to me! You're being short changed by 9dollars!