I do remember you saying this was a new T, Manda, so could you call up others who aren't so booked up and find someone to see you sooner. You have no relationship with this T that you have to wait so long to see, so maybe just start with someone who can see you now.

As for your meds, if they are not working, call your prescriber right away and tell them! You have an ongoing relationship with your prescriber, so they could probably see you soon and help with the meds. And maybe that would tide you over until you can start therapy.