dayley, it would be hard to find a woman that would be agreeable to the situation you have..... a lot of us have been cheated on and it is really a complicated subject to bring up. my support for you would be for you to wake up and smell the coffee. my husband cheated on his first wife.....divorced her and was single for awhile.......i didn't know him then.....met me and we married.....he cheated on me..........it's a cycle for those kind of men....it never quits, trust me and millions of women, out there..it's like being addicted to gambling, booze, pot, etc. xoxo pat