Pls. forgive me but I am too exhausted to go into details of everything that has happened. I appreciate all of the support and advice I have received from this group, truly you have all been wonderful.

I just want to know before I try to move on, if I have done everything I can possibly for my ex. bf. I have friends that have family members diagnosed with BP, and they are supportive, yet in listening to them, and knowing much of what my ex. is going through is related to BP, I need to know I have all that I can for him. I believe he is going through a paranoia, psychotic stage, and I say this because the pdoc has also said he is paranoid with psychosis. He really believes I wanted to stay 3000 miles from home and lose my job, he really does. He left almost 2 wks. ago and called me after a week, he doesn't know if I'm ok or not. He wanted to know how to use the grill so he could prep. lunch and he went out to the theatre last Sat. nite. In my opinion, he is either an extremely uncaring person or he is in such a state. I only give this background info. because he has quit seeing his (our) therapist and he will no longer let me speak w/ his pdoc. If there is anything else I can or should do for him, please let me know. I have tried talking to him the day he called, but he is still in his own world of denial. If you believe I have done all that I can, then I will need to find a way to live with that. Even with all that he has done, I still love him, yet in some ways I can't blame the BP for all of his decisions. Thank you again for any advice and insight you can give me.