I'm 32 and got out for the first time three years ago. I ended up going back for six months because I felt guilty for bringing children into the world and then subjecting them to a split home. But I had to for many reasons. Emotional/mental abuse and mild physical abuse were two factors. It meant that I lost a lot but it's worth it. If you're in a harmful environment, it's worth the sacrifices to get out. I'm here for you if you need anything. It's a long process but you can survive.