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About amonth ago I had a session with my therapist where she really hurt my feelings. I did not have the courage to say anything during the session and left feeling so sad and confused. When I got home I was feeling so bad that I called her back to let her know what I had felt during the session. I left her a voice message. She called me back within an hour but I missed the call so she left a message and she said that it was important for me to not let it just go but to talk with her about it. She said in the message to call her back and let her know when it would be a good time to talk with her over the phone later in the day. She ended up calling after her day at work and we talked for about an hour about what I was feeling. She was sincerely apologetic and did not realize what was happening in the session because I did not let her know. After the phone call I felt better but still felt confused and unsure. So I called her back on a Sunday and left a message asking if I could see her during the week on an unscheduled day. She called me first thing Monday morning and made time for me to come in for a face to face session to further discuss the situation. Everything was resolved. She hugged me and told me never to be afraid to let her know when my feelings are hurt. She said our relationship is important and she will not abandon me for having those kinds of feelings. She is a wonderful therapist and I appreciate her understanding me. We have been working together for many years...
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