wow! maybe his time in jail will give you a chance to take care of you. I am glad you made some decisions already. It sounds like you have made a good decision to not have him live with you. Sounds like you have struggled a lot and it sounds like your son has given up on himself, has had many opportunities and much support. He just didn't seem to have the strength to keep up the good fight. But you are strong. Sending you a safe cyber hug. Keep posting and let us know how you are doing.