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Congratulations on your divorce being final!!! WOW. And it is so, so, so awesome about the interactions with your ex bringing so much healing.
I know what you mean about your T just "getting it" when you told him what your ex said. I love that I can tell T "my mom just said X to me this morning" and his reaction is perfect - he just COMPLETELY understands it.
It's amazing when we realize how hard our therapists are working with us. It's cool that he shared that with you.
I hope you are proud of yourself for how you've handled the divorce. So much growth and healing!!

