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Originally Posted by fallenangel337
 Maybe I'm just too easily amused  . I don't know that there are or aren't rules, but I generally try not to push that boundary. I don't know why I don't, because I feel like non cuss words don't justify my feelings at times, but I don't want to risk it.  Again, I don't know why. |
i dont remember the first time i swore with pdoc, but it took a good long time to build up to it (maybe 2 years) and even then it kind of "slipped" out and i was like "*****, sorry". and then "oh, cr*p, i've done it again". and then i just sat there feeling mortified and not knowing how to dig my way out
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but it was funny, because a few sessions later pdoc swore too. and i was like
(he knows swear words!!
). but it was almost like he was waiting for 'permission' to swear, as i was with him.
not that we swear all the time now, but sometimes being like "i was really angry (sad/mortified/scared/whatevs). like, really really really really angry" just doesn't cover it.