the thing about pdoc is that yah, there is a bit of transference going on, but unlike others on this board i'm not really bothered by it. for me, it's a really nice fantasy to have, it's not something i want to "work through" and let go of.

so i didnt tell him yes (especially because it had nothing to do with what we were talking about). but also because he seemed really freaked out by the idea that he would have to deal with a patient transferring to him? i dont think he would have felt comfortable knowing where to go from there.