I agree with what Miri said about it being just another label.....My T doesn't even like the dx of BPD...

I think the bottom line is you are a survivor and now need to work thru the healing of what was done to you. You are who you are but that doens't mean you can't go beyond that to healing. As my T says to us "you are so much more that the Dx---you all bring so much to whole. Each is important and is worthy of a voice and of healing."

So I guess, don't get hung up on a label cuz you are so much more than that.