I really don't think my T would hug if I asked. I think she probably avoids them with everyone. I did try to bring up the topic last time and try to get to the point of asking, but instead I only got as far as crying about my parents not hugging me when I went to visit them recently and I had not seen them in over 2 years. And they didn't hug me. I want T to hug me, but if she ever did I would probably start crying the minute she touched me and get snot all over her shirt because I get snotty when I cry. I also have a problem asking for a hug, just like asking anyone for anything else, so I don't know how I will ever even bring this up. But I am fairly certain the answer is already "no".