congrats sunrise.. on many counts!

I've been away from the forum side of PC mostly... ever since the change away from the name most knew me by. But.. whenever I came here I always read your posts, and ty so much for responding to me recently - it was nice to be welcomed back.

I've admired your patience and strenght in the divorce process - no way I could have done it... well, maybe if I had kids too. You should be very proud. (my divorce is just one set of papers away from the judge now but i end up with nothing bc i asked for nothing - i am not able to fight/pay to fight).

also congrats on the beautiful relationship you have with your T... and i envy that hug part.