Hi anxietygirl. So sorry to hear of the problems with your son. I so understand what you're going through as I have a 21yo son who's been cooking the alphabet soup + doing drugs and alcohol for quite a while. Don't have much to offer you right at this time as I'm once again going through some crap with him. I do have a wonderful web site for you to visit for ideas, support, encouragement, ect. Just remembered it from years ago. There is a forum for parents dealing with adult children with mental health issues, drug and alcohol addiction ect. This information and support from this site was so incredibly helpful to me when his behavior started to become uncontrollable years ago. I can't believe I've forgoten all about it till now. Guess I'll have to follow my own advice and check it out again. BTW the letters gfg refer to our "problem child" as gift from God. Good luck with everything. If you'd like to chat you can pm me if you'd like.

take care,
BL