Thanks for your kind words Morning8glory. I guess we just pick up the pieces and try to make them fit somehow the best ways we can. If that makes sense. I don't know how good our relationship will or can get but I'm trying to just be there and take what comes and then try to figure how to deal with it. Like just trying to sense what may be best as things go. She has others in the family to talk to, too. We are all in the dark in some ways on this and then don't want to figure the worst at this point. I hate to see her in pain and hurting though. I'm going to call her in a few days. She doesn't like to talk at times when she doesn't feel real well so I'm giving her the space she needs, too, hopefully. Yet, I'll be there. She also can call me. Feeling sad now but that's to be expected. Best wishes to you. CQ

[b]<font color=red>"Remember that there is nothing stable in human affairs; therefore avoid undue elation in prosperity, or undue depression in adversity." Socrates</font color=red>