(((((((((((((Sunny)))))))))))) You sound great. I really enjoyed reading your post and sharing your progress.
Are your sessions confidential again? It sounds like you got your T back, now that he no longer has the dual role.
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The patient's job is to repeat in the therapy all the stuff that has been disastrous before. The T's job is to not let it happen, but to point out how it is happening.