I tend to think the second guy doesn't have Aspergers. Actually the fact that either of them was in a relationship with you makes me question whether either of them has AS only because its so rare for people with AS to date or to actually have friends. (especially the guys) Though its not impossible. A lot of us spend excessive amounts of energy trying to avoid others after all. But after you told about the first guy's story of the 35 dimension thing sure sounds like something a AS person would come up with.

AS is getting to be the end all excuse for bad behavior so I suspect that is why the second guy said he had it. Some people are misdiagnosed especially in recent years with AS being so popular that anyone who is weird or nerdy either gets misdiagnosed with it or self diagnoses themselves.