Well...it didn't get discussed, yet again, but T brought it up, and made me feel a bit better about the situation. She said that I could discuss it in bits and pieces...that I don't have to spill all at once, and that we would take it one step at a time. She also said that it is her top priority to not make judgments, knowing that she has not heard the whole story, and piece it together bit by bit as we go.