(((((Laru))))) My husband doesn't understand my depression either.."just cheer up"....."you have a good life"....."just be happy".... If we could do that....we would have already!!! I guess if you don't have it it's hard to understand it..although....if we had cancer or something like that I think they would... I feel your pain sweetie...It's hard to feel like this and be alone with it... Sending you good thoughts!!! No one chooses this....