I'm sorry your upset. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but your pushing him away. Most men in general do not like talking on the phone. I think they are just wired that way. My daughter loves the phone, but my boys hate the phone. My boyfriend is the same way. If he's not on the phone doesn't mean he's out doing something he isn't suppost to be doing. Besides that, it's really not healthy for you to just sit by the phone waiting for him either. I think that he's not calling you because he feels like your smothering him. Calling 20 times just isn't good. If you can't trust him maybe he's not the one for you.