Jennifer when someone goes threw a divorce it is very painful. Time only heals the pain. Right now he's probably feeling like his whole world just left him. He needs to hire a lawyer to have his visitation rights. If he will not take the loan then try legal aid. I would encourage him to see a therapist. I think in all the states they have community resources that help people with legal aid and health clinics. Look in the phone book and see if the information is there.