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Old Jun 27, 2009, 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by iimmscared View Post
I am 21, i have been sexually active since late into 17, and have been masterbationg since 16, but really compusively since i was around 18-19. Suddenly i have lost a lot of size, i went on a long time thinking that i was homosexual because my mind was not interested in it at all and i got really screwed up endochronicalligacly. I am now losing about half the size, it is not as hard, i am going to an urologist on monday but I am wondering if this size loss could possibly be permanent. last night i had sex with my girlfriend and was not really interested, about three inches decreased, maybe 3-4 inches, and lasted about 30 seconds. I considered myself good a while ago, but i masterbate about 3-4 tiems a day on a bad week. I am very nervous. i have gone as high as five, but I need help... any ideas?
Are there any events that trigger anxiety that you can think of? I know when I was about 11-12 years of age, when I was anxious, I would masturbate to "releave" the anxiousness, which it did not. Though after climax, it felt good, the anxiety was still there. So, if you are feeling anxious, what is causing the anxiety and once you find out what you are anxious about, resolve it and move on in your life.