(((((((((((Inky)))))))))))) I wish that I had a voice in all the things that should be happening but aren't. You should have been invited to those graduations. You should be allowed to be a mother to your children (and I think you do make the time you have count, and that must be very important to them). Their father should take some responsibility for your welfare, for your therapy, for helping you to have a place to live. Something is not right in the world, but they're never going to listen to me.