(((((Angela)))))

That hurts when that happens, even when you did nothing wrong. A message board I used to belong to kept having roll calls to weed out all the people who weren't actively participating and who might be spammers. I posted enough that they knew who I was, and had responded to past roll calls, but they had another roll call and I was 2 hours late responding, and I had been deleted. It's hard to join that group too - takes forever to get added, and there are often glitches with adding new members. So I figured that if I was too overwhelmed with life (was over a year ago right when I was very stressed trying to get things done for classes), and if they didn't care enough to leave me as a member when I had told them less than a month previous that I still wanted to be, then maybe I didn't belong there anyway. There's another group I belong to that has a lot of the same members and they are continually posting to the other group about the group that deleted me being where all the action is and everybody should join over there, and my rotten attitude pops up and reminds me about being rejected every time I see one of those messages. GRRR. And I guess I could get back on if I wanted to, but I just feel like it isn't worth it.

Have you asked someone why you got suspended? I bet it's a simple misunderstanding and you could get back on if you want to. However it works out with that forum, I know that you are a good person, and I hope that you can remember that you are a good person too.

Love,
Wendy