Welcome to psychcentral. GOOD FOR YOU! Getting out of that atmosphere is the best thing you can do for yourself...as long as you don't put yourself into another one.

I wonder about your finances... make sure you call each of HIS creditors and take yourself off of them... write each creditor stating that you will not be responsible for any of his debts from thenceforth. If you have any money, put it into a savings account and open a credit line from that, you will begin your own line of credit this way.

On the computer, make sure you delete temporary files and history so he won't know you come here for support.

Come back and check in often.... be safe.