"hopefully we could apply in life, is how to stay connected to the underlying person,"
Exactly!! (a great big smile through the tears) You're too kind, Sir.
How is it that you already know me so well and those that have known me all my life don't know half of what you know?

But that's a whole "nutter" story.
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<font color=blue>This above all: To thine own self be true. --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.