For me the surprise about swearing in T was that my T seemed to be pleasantly surprised. I think she was happy that I could express my anger when usually I would not, even if it wasn't in the most beautiful language. I think it was the expressing it at this point that was the important part. A couple of months ago at the end of a T session she said something along the lines of. . . I think you said frick (yes acutual word not a respelling for PC) more times in this session than you ever have before. My only thing with that session is I don't remember it except for her saying that. Apparently I didn't hang around for that one mentaly, but was pretty upset about something. I think she was pleased about that one also. Though I didn't have the courage to tell her I didn't remember.